Live in an apt with thin walls. ?

My first experience with apt living like this.

No privacy. I am accustomed to making a lot of noise any time day or night. Lived alone for many years in a house.. I will never be able to adjust to this.

It is driving me nuts. How do people live this way?

You cannot talk to anyone, make a phone call,

use the bathroom, anything without others hearing you. How do married people survive. It is next to living in a commune. I tried with all my heart and soul to avoid this type of living.



I did without for many years, doing harm to my health , scrmping and saving (not credit card money)

I saved ten thousand dollars to put a dp on my home and auto, when I was working. Took me about seven years to save that. (I made bills after that) I did without many things to save that money

buy a home, thinking I would never have to live in an apt. It is better than the street, but there is no

audio privacy.





Does this feeling of claustrophobia, fishbowl

ever go away? I feel guilty saying that, I know I could be out in the street for complaining , (had that experience from trying to file lawsuits, trying to

get legal assistance ...to no avail..)Live in an apt with thin walls. ?
I am someone who lived in an apartment from the time I moved out until I was married. The only thing I hated about it was the people who made so much noise with music, walking, arguing. My manager put me in with a bunch of 60 and older people and it was heaven once I moved into that apartment from my old one.



I would look at it as this is a stepping stone to renting/buying a house somewhere. Save as much money as you can with what you save in rent, utilities, etc. It is hard to go from a house back to an apartment, but mentally you need to look at it as if it were as stepping stone.