I have a biological daughter in P.I. I said it cause she didnt grow-up w/ me here in the USA she was left with her mother then when I left there in the 80's. Now that shes grown to be a college ed, and working independently her own way, I cant seem to get her to have the father daughter love anymore, no matter how much I've spoiled her, my $Dollar$ are not good enough for her. Is there any chance at all I can get closer to her heart cause I've given up all hopes sometime ago. I still wanna retire there in the Phil. someday when I'm ready to go home. And its very important to re-new our relationship before I depart again to you know where. Please give me some feedbacks, specially Pinoys like me.Can Money buy me LOVE?
I WILL TELL YOU THAT MONEY CANNOT BUY YOUR DAUGHTER'S LOVE. MONEY CAN ONLY BUY THINGS. THAT IS ALL. THAT HAS BEEN TRIED FOR CENTURIES. BUYING LOVE WITH MONEY AND IT NEVER WORKED. IT USUALLY ENDED UP BEING BETRAYAL OR SOMEONE LEAVING ALL TOGETHER OR SOMETHING. YOU CAN GIVE THINGS FROM THE LOVE IN YOUR HEART, BUT YOU MUST SHARE YOURSELF. TRY TO GO TO DIFFERENT EVENTS WITH HER IF SHE WILL ALLOW. INVITE HER TO GO TO EVENTS WITH YOU. LET HER SEE THE REAL YOU. SHE IS PROBABLY FEELING RESENTFUL THAT YOU LEFT HER BEHIND IN THE PHILLIPINES WHEN YOU CAME HERE AND ALL THE TIME YOU WERE PARTED SHE DID WITHOUT YOU. SHE LEARNED TO BE INDEPENDENT. IT WILL TAKE TIME FOR HER TO LEARN THAT SHE CAN LEAN ON YOU AGAIN AND THAT YOU WOULD LIKE HER TO COME TO YOU FOR THAT KIND OF LOVE. GIVE HER TIME AND GIVE HER ALL THE RIGHT KIND OF LOVE AND MOSTLY GIVE OF YOURSELF NOT ONLY MONEY. THAT IS THE ANSWER. I THINK.
SHARON/ MOUNTAIN_MOMMA
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