X-fiance is selling home to get a bigger home for his woman and her 4 children?

My x-fiance and I have been seperated for approx 1 1/2 yrs, were together for 13 years. I have been the mother to his biological child since his birth , he is now 13 - I was also a surrogate mother ( to try and put him myself my daughter and his son in to a home ) we did get into a lease option but it went bad and we lost out on everything. HIs mother then told us she would put money down on home for us - We went looking for a home I picked out ( to this day I have the home loan agent and real estate agent - whom will acknowledge home was for us ) During our relationship we also took in a child ( his brothers wife's sisters kid - he was 4 1/2 mnths ) when my x had us leave home - we left with nothing ( no money from home at all ) so it was my biological daughter and the baby was about 1 year. I now have legal guardinship of him - and he does think to this day that my x is his father.

Okay so here is what I have to ask ....during this time that we have been paying mortgage on home his mother of course has been claiming with the IRS that she has been living there ( collecting the taxes at the end of the year ) He has also to this day been keeping my name on the PG%26amp;E because he recieves a discount.

When we first got home we made a verbal agreement with eachother that if we split ..... he would give at least $7500.00 to me to start over again. Well of course that never happened, and he threatned me if I ever did anything to get his mother in trouble I would be in for it . So how could I go about this legally maybe with a letter first that if I dont get - I will contact IRS.

I dont mean to sound hateful but I have given soooo much time I was the bread winner - making sure mortgage paid he only had to pay utilities. I always made sure kids had the best of everything, helped out my family his family our friends. Now I have nothing I cant work because the little one I have soome issues. But I dont regret thing I love allmy children the same . I will admit yes I am hurt that after 1 year of dating he is getting married - she has been a stripper for 15 years ( fake everything ) the previous occupation just had was talking to men over the phone about their sexual fantasies.... no matter what it is kids, animals, and so forth. That just disgusts me !!!

Please let me know if anyone knows anything - he already has a friend to buy the home . X-fiance is selling home to get a bigger home for his woman and her 4 children?
You state the mother has been claiming income from the IRS because she lives there. That's not the way that works. The only ';income'; that comes from living in a home actually comes from interest paid on a mortgage loan. Unless the mother is paying the mortgage - or the mortgage is in her name, she gets nothing from the IRS for living in a house.



I think you are confused. And angry. And trying to get revenge instead of focusing on your future. Verbal agreements are useless. If you invested money, you should have been smart enough to have a contract.



If any of the kids are his, make sure he is paying child support. Other than that, stop this unhealthy obsession with his new fiance, his finances, his mother and everything else about his life - except his child support obligations to you. Get over him, as he is oh so clearly over you.X-fiance is selling home to get a bigger home for his woman and her 4 children?
Depending where you live, check the law on common law and child support. He should be supporting his child regardless. If he has threatened you, do you feel seriously in danger if you expose him and his mother... well,聽then get a restraining order too. Remove him from YOUR home and protect your kids from him selling out from under you.
Unless your name is on the deed with him or his mother or whomever you really don't have any interest in this home. Sorry these things haven't worked out for you but hopefully you'll know next time to get it in writing.